To be completely honest, I am a person who can’t reject someone’s persuasion. It might be cruel once i murmured “oh so sorry not this day, I can’t. I’ve just checked my to-do-list for today”

» Avert yourself from the invitation can be a calamity for your kind-hearted friends. Maybe it’s you, they rely on or for sure, you’re their fondness. Sweet! «

I need a solution so I can overcome my own disability considering this matter.
I just want to have not-too-assertive life but huge life with my beloved friends surrounds me. This is what we name overjoyed milieu.

» In addition, what goes wrong isn’t your fault. You can spend the rest of your life tiptoeing around, try to be the best person among them. If it doesn’t work, you’ll just end up missing the life you have. So don’t hesitate cheering them «

Later I will text this simple message deliberately (in French literally):
“Je vous remercie de votre invitation à participer à la fête….mais je n’y peux pas aller. C’est dommage”

Alors vous comprenez,
Amitié,
Bestman :)